Welcome – Space for healing, body and soul
You are a reflective man who lives life consciously. You feel that your path can lead even further, even deeper. You have realised that true strength lies not in doing, but in being. Perhaps you have achieved a lot, maybe you have carried a lot – and now you feel: it is time to receive. Time to experience yourself anew. In a safe space – beyond performance, goals and expectations. In unintentional tantric touch. In the presence of a healed woman.
Here you will encounter a form of bodywork that is unintentional and yet full of presence. A tantric full-body massage that does not seek to take, but welcomes you unconditionally. A touch that does not judge, but reminds you: of your original feelings, of your wholeness.
I am Esther Janssen. My own journey through deep crises, trauma and healing has led me to where I am today: in a loving, clear connection with myself – physically, mentally and spiritually. I accompany you from lived experience, with therapeutic and spiritual knowledge and with a touch that wants nothing except to meet you, exactly where you are right now.
In my work, I encounter you as a man not through your role, not through performance or neediness – but through your humanity. Through your heart. Through your desire for depth, wholeness and healing.
What you can expect from me:
Full-body treatments beyond a sexualised context, in which you can completely relax.
Unintentional, present touch based on tantric teachings that speaks to your body on the deepest level – without expectations, without judgement.
A safe space where you can learn to keep your sexual impulses conscious and direct them inward as a source of energy.
An invitation to spiritual self-exploration – through the body, through feeling, through letting go.
A human encounter – carried by mindfulness, respect and inner clarity.
Who this space is for:
For men who have the courage to listen to themselves.
For men who consciously refrain from initiating or expecting sex.
For men who know or sense that true intimacy has nothing to do with satisfying lust, but with presence, trust and soul contact.
Healing happens when you experience yourself in acceptance.
Body therapy connects you with what lives beyond words.
Spirituality reveals itself when you force nothing – and everything is allowed to be.
Welcome to your growth, your essence, your truth.
This place is for you if you are ready to engage more deeply with yourself. If you want to encounter your body, your inner man and your soul – with respect, devotion and curiosity.
Are you ready to become a healed man?
After spending several years exclusively accompanying women on their journey to becoming healed women, I gradually came to the decision to also create a body therapy programme for men. After all, the growing number of healed women and the new world also need plenty of healed men. If you want to become one, or are already on your way, then you may have come to the right place! To avoid any misunderstandings, you can read below what I mean by a healed man:
The healed man – An image of maturity and wholeness
A healed man lives from the depths of his identity. He has not suppressed the path through injuries, crises and conflicts, but has accepted and traversed it. In this process, he has not remained bitter, but has matured. His past may bear scars, but these are signs of healing and no longer a source of shame.
Inner freedom and self-acceptance
A healed man has made peace with himself. He knows his limits and weaknesses, but also his abilities and strengths. He no longer has to pretend to be someone else in order to be accepted, and he does not wear destructive masks. Others feel safe in his presence because he is genuine and authentic.
Emotional depth and maturity
He has learned to give space to his feelings without being dominated by them. Anger does not become destructive, but clarity. Grief is not suppressed, but leads to compassion. His joy is not superficial, but an expression of deep gratitude. He lives with a heart that feels – and a mind that reflects.
Powerful relationships
A healed man loves without fear and encounters others without a façade. He knows that closeness can only arise where boundaries are respected. He lives in relationships built on trust, loyalty and honesty. His strength is not shown in control, but in the ability to let go and give space.
Responsibility and reconciliation
The healed man is not driven by his history, but shapes his present. He takes responsibility for his actions and seeks reconciliation where he has incurred guilt. He does not shy away from apologising and recognises forgiveness as a liberating force – for himself and for others.
Meaning and direction
A healed man is anchored within himself. He does not live by chance or external expectations, but by a clear awareness of his values and his calling. His decisions do not spring from a desire to please, but from an inner orientation towards truth and love.
Wholeness and authenticity
The life of the healed man is in harmony: what he thinks, says and does bears the same signature. In his vulnerability, he shows courage; in his strength, he shows gentleness. He is a person who is no longer driven by ‘having to become’ but who lives from the fullness of ‘being’.
A healed man is living proof that healing is possible. He radiates hope, embodies dignity and inspires others to walk their own path to wholeness.
Here are some topics you may find yourself in
Out of your head
When was the last time your thoughts were quiet and you experienced yourself and your body in relaxed serenity?
In Western societies, knowledge, intellect and reason are omnipresent and highly valued. Our lives and actions are constantly analysed with our minds, and we learn early on that knowledge is power.
The knowledge of the heart (e.g. intuition) and our own emotions usually have little place in education and professional life. It seems to be an unwritten law that these areas are private matters and, at best, belong in our leisure time and family life.
The difficulty for more and more people is to shut down their minds and thinking and find inner peace and feeling. The separation between ‘head’ and ‘heart’ is becoming a great burden for more and more people and is leading to a sustained increase in numerous mental crises and illnesses.
Many people believe that the mind should be able to be switched on and off like a machine. Because this does not work for most people, alcohol, drugs or excessive distraction are used as a means to ‘wind down’ and ‘relax’. We have all experienced that this does not usually work in the long term.
In an unintentional full-body massage, you can experience how nourishing and fulfilling it can be to reconnect with your body and senses in a gentle and calm way in a safe place. Your mind slowly calms down, your awareness of your body comes to the fore and you also reconnect with your emotions. A feeling of ‘wholeness’ can arise. In this space, you can experience that you are more than just your body and your heart, that you are an inseparable part of the greater whole and that you are connected to everything and everyone. This creates a portal to a higher dimension, the world of spirituality and the true reason for your existence (see also: ‘The body as a portal to spirituality’).
Into the heart
When was the last time you approached yourself and the world with an open and gentle heart?
Did you know that your heart has cells that have an identical structure to your brain cells? Neuroscience now assumes that there must be such a thing as heart knowledge. What shamans, healers and spiritual leaders have known for thousands of years is now also scientifically proven.
We all know moments when our heart speaks to us. This can be pleasant, but also confusing. Most of the time, our heart tells us something different from our mind. Because our society relies so heavily on the mind, intellectual knowledge is placed above heart knowledge, and so it may be that we no longer hear (or want to hear) the messages of our heart, and the messages of the heart become quieter and quieter.
The heart is an enormously important centre of knowledge and energy that is connected to six other energy centres in our body. The knowledge of these energy centres, how they function and how they are connected to each other, has been taught and used for thousands of years in the teachings of the chakras.
In a mindful, unintentional full-body massage, combined with my highly developed abilities to perceive and direct the energy flows in your body, you can experience how incredibly strengthening and nourishing it can be when your energy flow can circulate freely throughout your entire body again.
Do you want to rediscover this source of knowledge within yourself and unfold the potential of your heart’s knowledge?
Your body as a portal to spirituality
Do you know how wonderful it is when an unintentional, energetic physical experience opens the door to your spirituality?
In Indian and Far Eastern wisdom and traditions, the body has always been regarded as a portal to higher dimensions and the world of spirituality. Here in the West, tantric knowledge and tantric massage techniques are becoming increasingly important. I have studied this knowledge and completed extensive training in tantric massage.
As my ability to feel the energy flows in the body with my hands has continued to expand and deepen, I have also completed training as a spiritual medium. In my practice, I have combined tantric knowledge, my ability to feel and direct energies, and my knowledge as a spiritual medium into my own method, which I have already used to treat hundreds of people.
If you want to open your body as a portal to other dimensions, to the world of spirituality, you can follow this path with my mindful, unintentional and efficient method in a safe and very experienced setting.
The path to becoming a healed man
Would you like to develop your masculine energy in a healthy, loving way?
This offer is aimed at men who no longer want to repress their injuries, old patterns and blocked feelings, but have the courage to turn to their inner world. Many men carry experiences that have led to tension, insecurity or alienation from their own bodies. In a safe space, I offer you the opportunity to rediscover yourself – free from expectations, supported by mindfulness, respect and appreciation.
The focus is on trauma-sensitive whole-body work based on unintentional, loving touch. This special form of bodywork invites you to calm your nervous system, release tension and allow deeply stored emotions to flow step by step. In the process, you will experience how self-love, inner peace and strength are reawakened within you. In this experience, you will not be overwhelmed, but mindfully accompanied – at your own pace, with clear boundaries and always with respectful consent.
The path to becoming a healed man means feeling whole again: in your body, in your sensuality, in your strength. It is not about conforming to a role or an ideal, but about living your authentic masculinity – connected with clarity, empathy and inner freedom. The unintentional touch supports you in rewriting your story, healing old wounds and unfolding your masculine power in a healthy, loving way.
Each session is individually tailored to you. An introductory conversation is followed by gentle, intuitive bodywork that allows you to relax deeply and perceive yourself on a new level. At the end, there is space for integration and reflection, so that you can return to your everyday life feeling strengthened, grounded and with a sense of inner clarity.
This offer is an invitation to experience yourself anew as a man – whole, connected and free.
Gently integrating trauma
Imagine if you could “overwrite” your shame, guilt or other unpleasant physical experiences related to sexuality with new, beautiful and healing experiences.
Many people have painful, stressful or even traumatic experiences in their lives. Very stressful or traumatic experiences have an enormous impact on our nervous system, our self-definition, our behaviour and our well-being. Stressful or traumatic experiences cannot be “erased”, but we can become aware of how these experiences continue to influence our body and nervous system to this day.
A very stressful or traumatic experience is never ‘just’ stored in our memory, but also in our body. It has even been proven that such bodily memories can be genetically inherited. This means that children of traumatised parents suffer from the physical consequences of a trauma that they themselves have never experienced (transgenerational trauma).
The body as a space for memories, especially the nervous system, can be calmed very well with an unintentional, trauma-sensitive full-body massage, and sometimes small miracles happen in which those affected experience great relief and a new inner freedom.
Full body massage for couples as a private course
Would you like to learn how to take your sexuality to a new level as a couple, where you can connect on a soul level in a mindful, unconditional way?
This offer is aimed at couples who want to deepen their connection, rediscover tenderness or integrate a shared ritual of tantric touch into their lives. The focus is on unintentional, mindful and trauma-sensitive touch that creates space for healing, trust and intimacy. In a safe environment, you will learn to give and receive touch – free from pressure to perform, with clear boundaries and in an atmosphere of safety and respect.
The couples session begins with a gentle preliminary discussion in which concerns, wishes and personal boundaries are clarified. You will then be introduced step by step to a ritual in which touch is intuitive, gentle and unintentional. You will experience how your nervous system calms down, tensions are released and a deeper connection between you is created. Open communication – both verbal and non-verbal – supports the process and allows you to continually adapt the touch to your own needs. If desired, energetic elements, such as working with the chakras, can be integrated into the ritual, provided it feels right for you.
The effects of this work are evident on several levels: you gain access to more self-love, inner peace and sensuality, you strengthen your trust in each other and discover new ways of treating each other with care. Deeper emotions are also allowed to surface and be seen and held in a safe environment. Each session ends with a phase of integration, in which you have time to reflect on the experience and take away ideas for your own ritual at home.
Importantly, everything happens at your own pace and only with clear consent. Intimate touch is not a must, but only part of the experience if you both expressly wish it and it feels right in the situation. The goal is not orgasm or a specific result, but rather the experience of closeness, security and the liberating power of unintentional touch.
This creates a loving ritual that strengthens you as a couple, opens your hearts and opens up new paths to connection, healing and sensuality.
What customers say
Hey Esther, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your careful guidance on my spiritual journey! The experience continues to resonate with me and has encouraged me to engage more deeply with spirituality again! Thank you also for your empathetic hugs when I started crying uncontrollably. And for your steadfastness when I was almost transported into a new world! I will gladly process what I have experienced and then come back, knowing that you will accompany me attentively and kindly in spirituality and my masculinity! Thank you.
For a long time, I was afraid of being touched by others and of my body being judged. I am very grateful that I was able to have this completely new experience in such a trusting and respectful atmosphere. I never thought that being touched could feel so good, and I am very grateful to Esther for helping me forget my fear for a moment.
Pure, crystal-clear magic – experiencing wonder and flowing, vibrant energy streams Mutual trust, depositing thoughts in a mental cloud... to let go, to arrive, to connect light souls together – for the duration of the held space – to merge into a large and growing energised unity, to create abundance and bliss.
Esther's great empathy enabled me to relax and have a wonderful experience. I am deeply grateful to her for this. Dear Esther, from my heart to yours, an infinite thank you for what you do and who you are. You make the world a better place. I am glad you exist.
Esther's great empathy enabled me to relax and have a wonderful experience. I am deeply grateful to her for this. Dear Esther, from my heart to yours, an infinite thank you for what you do and who you are. You make the world a better place. I am glad you exist.
Dear Esther, I had the pleasure of enjoying my second massage with you. I was already overwhelmed by the experience after my first visit. But what I experienced yesterday was many times more intense. I was able to completely switch off and immerse myself in a wonderful world far away from the stresses of everyday life. Your touch – sometimes gentle, sometimes more intense – completely enchanted me. You opened the door to a world I never believed existed. I am very much looking forward to exploring this world further on my next visit.
Thank you so much for this incredible experience!
Due to various unresolved issues, I felt like I was no longer myself, that I was no longer aware of myself and simply couldn't get out of my current situation and move on. Esther, with her very friendly and empathetic manner, met me exactly where I was in my life. During a detailed preliminary discussion, we talked about my situation, which she viewed from her perspective and analysed and commented on without any judgement.
The subsequent massage with incredibly pleasant, warm oil and her tender hands allowed me to relax completely and focus purely on the touch. Thanks to the methods she suggested, I was able to push the thoughts that arose to one side, park them elsewhere and then concentrate exclusively on the beautiful touch again. there were only the feelings, the emotions and me. Afterwards, Esther gently picked up on these and discussed them with a lot of warmth and closeness. Purely from a physical point of view, it was a wonderful, mindful massage that evoked deep and beautiful feelings. The subsequent conversation about the experience and her advice for me helped me greatly to look beyond my own horizons and consider other solutions. It will be exciting to see where the path leads. A heartfelt and warm thank you, dear Esther, I look forward to the rest of the journey!
The subsequent massage with incredibly pleasant, warm oil and her tender hands allowed me to relax completely and focus purely on the touch. Thanks to the methods she suggested, I was able to push the thoughts that arose to one side, park them elsewhere and then concentrate exclusively on the beautiful touch again. there were only the feelings, the emotions and me. Afterwards, Esther gently picked up on these and discussed them with a lot of warmth and closeness. Purely from a physical point of view, it was a wonderful, mindful massage that evoked deep and beautiful feelings. The subsequent conversation about the experience and her advice for me helped me greatly to look beyond my own horizons and consider other solutions. It will be exciting to see where the path leads. A heartfelt and warm thank you, dear Esther, I look forward to the rest of the journey!
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